One of the most time-honored traditions of the Oscars is the redemptive quality of its nominations process. Talent who've hit the the skids over the years through their own bad decisions personally and/or professionally can suddenly find their careers revived because of Academy Award attention from their peers.
Such is the situation this year with Mickey Rourke and Fox Searchlight's The Wrestler. Which is why that recent New York Times Magazine profile of him was so unfair. For a newspaper that rarely examines anything Oscar with a cynical eye, this is usually a slam dunk bit of heartwarming PR: actor squanders great promise, gets written off by the Industry, then gives a wonderful performance, and gets the recognition that was long overdue. Instead, the NYT decided to go a different way: investigate every claim that came out of Rourke's mouth in order to expose him as a kind of whacked-out con man who's "spent his entire adult life playing not fictional characters but an idealized delusional fantasy of himself". It's hard to imagine, say, the NYT writing as negatively about Sean Penn or Frank Langella. But that's because the class-conscious newspaper of record doesn't place Rourke, long a fixture of straight-to-video feature films, in the same thesp elite category. But, worse, the mag went about this bit of character assassination badly.

One of the most controversial aspects of the piece is the treatment of Rourke's claim that he suffered abuse at the hands of his stepfather and the way that it affected his entire life. "Rourke’s eyes teared up again. He didn’t speak for a long moment. Then he said: 'It began before my acting. When my mother divorced my father, she remarried a brutal man... I should have stood up to him more. Not be a victim. But I was only 7 years old.' Thus was born Rourke’s life-long sense of shame that he claimed he tried to expiate through his tough-guy persona both on the screen and in his real life. 'It took my whole life to forgive myself for calling him Daddy,' Rourke said. 'I took it out on everyone else and became hard.' So the NYT-assigned writer then sought out the stepfather, who denied almost every detail of Rourke's description of his childhood, including the abuse allegations.
But the question is, why didn't the NYT explore further? It's now apparant that the paper never went to Rourke's other family members to confirm or deny the abuse. Which is why I've received an exclusive statement from Rourke's sister Patty Rourke and stepsister Janet Smalley whose father is the accused abuser. Both siblings express how distressed they are with The New York Times Magazine article for insinuating that Rourke lied about the abuse.
"We were shocked and deeply saddened to read Pat Jordan’s overtly biased piece about our brother Mickey Rourke in The New York Times Magazine. Although our childhood is searingly painful to discuss, we absolutely needed to speak out to set the record straight. Tragically, what our brother has said about his abusive childhood barely scratches the surface of what really happened. If Pat Jordan had tried to contact us, we would've told him the truth. We love Mickey very much and stand by his account of our early years." -- Patty Rourke & Janet Smalley
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Perhaps it was the content of professional wrestling that caused the uninvestigative reporter to spin their article so harshly. I catch a faint whiff of elitism…
The stepfather denied the abuse ever happened.
I find this odd. People always admit when they abuse children……… Don’t they?…….. Give me a break!
thanks for posting this, nikki. i was shocked at the obvious comtempt the article showed for rourke too. im glad his sister have come forward, because what is difficult about all abuse cases is that the perpetrators almost always deny it. and abuse is often hard to prove years after the fact, even if its effects can last a life time. i commend rourke for talking about it. no one should be made fun of or doubted like that.
While it’s not unreasonable to say that we maybe shouldn’t take everything Rourke says at face value, I did notice that Jordan did exactly that with what the accused abuser said. He says Rourke is making it up, so case closed? I think this is something MR and his family need to work out among themselves, but in the meantime I find it pretty odious that an outsider would make conclusions about the veracity of anybody’s stories just based on the evidence here.
This story is just an example of really lazy, irresponsible reporting. By qualifying everything in it with “he says,” there’s the implication that everything Rourke is saying is a lie, saving the writer from having to do some digging to discredit anything himself. And “coyly vague” about abuse? There’s a phrase I hope to never read again.
Thank you Nikki,
This is so typical. Journalists skewing… Maybe the interviewer had a f-up childhood too, however is in such denial, that Mickey’s claims are threatening to this person. Very sad, but a big YEAH for Mickey Rourke! Can’t wait to see “The Wrestler”.
Can’t wait to see The Wrestler. I’ve heard nothing but good things about it.
I don’t understand this concept of kicking someone not only when they’re down, but when they’re actually trying to do something productive about getting up again.
It’s sad that The New York Times would employ a person and allow that so called journalist to do a total character assassination of an artist. One would expect more from the NYT especially with the motto, “All the news that fit to print”
I got to see The Wrestler at a screening and his performance is WONDERFUL. Screen-acting at its best. And that alone should decide whether or not he gets a nomination. His performance is up there with Heath Leger’s and Sean Penn’s for top American film acting of the year.
I’ve always adored Mickey Rourke. Thanks for posting this, nikki…
The Times has had some really off features lately–well, for the past several years–especially as regards things film biz/LA/west coast. I got a chuckle reading their front page story on the Bob Baker puppet theater in Echo Park. I’ll bet you didn’t know that it’s “common” for “white gloved hands” to scoop popcorn for rich kids in movie theaters here(WTF? where exxactly does that happen? Did someone dream that?)…or that the Bob Baker theater is one of the “only”/rare places in the entire city of L.A. where kids of various incomes and ethnicities are in the same place together (Oh? not in any of our parks-Descanso, Griffith, Santa Monica Beach, etc etc-or in our museums? Give me a break)?
And this piece on MR. Where are they getting these writers?
If anyone has read “The Duke in his Domain” by Truman Capote (his infamous and brutal interview with Marlon Brando) then they will realize that Pat Jordan is totally imitating the style and vibe of that piece here, to less effect.
Most adults grow into themselves mostly by who they once were. Children. As most, myself included have always had a ‘can-take-him-or-leave-him attitude towards MR, it is this kind of “opinionated, not investigative journalism” that makes people like myself root for people like MR. No matter that he might have caused lots of his own demise. Who cares. What matters is not only is he still in the game, he is what the game is about. Kudos to you Mr Rouke and if The Wrestler is even 1/2 of what people are saying I will not only be a fan but an admired one
I just read the article. It’s not that big of a hatchet job. I heard a former sports reporter (ESPN) that went to high school with him say Mickey definitely DID NOT grow up in Liberty City. But he did mention – as Mickey’s stepdad did – that he was an amazing athlete.
One thing for certain, Mickey is one of the great actors of our time.
This pisses me off to no end. Rourke has always been a pretty remarkable, magnetic actor even when he was slumming it all that time.
And what about that quote “spent his entire adult life playing not fictional characters but an idealized delusional fantasy of himself”. Sounds pretty much like the majority of marquee name movie stars out there. Why not write slam pieces on them too. Many of them have far less talent than Rourke.
Rouke is a talented actor sometimes but, as anybody who has ever worked on a set with him knows, a blowhard and a jerk of the first order. Why should the Times do a puff piece on him?
Dear Niki I’m glad you posted this, is disgusting when journalist decide to be part of the feature instead of doing their job and the NYT should be ashamed of this story…. I loved the movie that Rourke is in and that is the “real” story …. why we have to be that personal the NYT is not a tabloid… well it wasn’t until now!!!
I know Mick and he is a survivor — through the best of times as well as those times when he was down and out. The reporter was totally trying to get dirt and do a hatchet job. While I have not seen it yet, The Wrestler will be his acting masterpiece.
Nikki,
Excellent piece. Your crit of the half-assed neo-Freudian hack piece in the NYT on Mickey Rourke is right on and refreshing, thus elevating the dialogue on your site to thoughtful J-crit!
I don’t care how bad he tastes to fellow actors in a screen kiss; it’s how he hits the silver screen that counts, and he’s doing such great work the last couple of years…Check our his meth dlr turn in “Spun.”
Wrestler’s on my list.
Yer pal in jour-crit,
Ichbin
I’m for Rourke too, but I wish he didn’t do all that plastic surgery to make his face look like something from that old Beauty and the Beast TV show – and I’m not reffing the Beauty. I just don’t know why he would change the face he had – he was ok looking?
I am sorry to read of Mickey’s painful past but really, do we all need to know of this secret of his?
Why is it celebrity are so willing & to share of their painful past to the media but hates it when the same ppl come running to them for news and photographs?
The world need not know of your pain. Your shrink perhaps can offer a better help
But perhaps, its a shamless plug to bait the Oscars? Sorry, can’t help to feel this is all a publicity stunt. He could have told the world last 40 yrs, not having to wait for the Oscar’s nomination week
What the eff is going on with the NYT these days?? First, we have the Manohla Dargis distgustingly bitter and jaded “review” of THE BOY IN THE STRIPED PAJAMAS and now this?? Shouldn’t the NYT employ people who actually LIKE movies and actors? People who want to offer something insightful and constructive for the love of film and not rant based on personal biases?? Both Manola and Pat need to get laid, get a clue or get new jobs.
Am surprised at the short cuts that NYT takes anymore, all in the name of hits and sales! Disgusting.
It would not have taken much longer for them to investigate further.
Rourke us a great actor, but a deeply flawed man who has not only hurt himself but others which has made many in Hollywood fear and dislike him. I’m surprised Pat Jordan didn’t dig deeper as Rourke has had more then a few altercations over the years, including on that happen at a local gym in LA a few years back.
The Times article made me love Rourke all the more. The raw pain & honesty he exuded obliterated the obvious contempt the interviewer had for him. It takes real humanity & soul to be that open.
Pat Jordan accuses Mickey Rourke of acting during the interview. Hilarious. Makes one wonder: has Pat Jordan ever before interviewed an actor, director or producer? Ever?
Darren Aronofsky thinks that The Wrestler audience will have a nice “look, there’s Mickey!” moment? I had that when I saw Mickey Rourke’s cameo in Vincent Gallo’s Buffalo ‘66.
and then again seeing him in Get Carter, in great shape.
The Wrestler trailer looks fab and I’m also looking forward to seeing the movie. Lots of buzz for Mickey, Independent Spirit nomination etc. So cool. He was and still is one of our fave bad boys. Seeing him grow older doesn’t change that. So – What else is new?
Wow-that article was straight-up mockery from first sentence to last. Pat Jordan decided how to portray MR before the interview even started. Guy comes forward and talks about being abused, one of the most difficult subjects anyone can talk about, and he gets this treatment?..yeah, because, when asked, abusers always admit it and apologize..nice follow-up to confirm or deny by calling MR’s sister.. oh wait, you didn’t do that, did you Pat?.. What a fucking asshole. I hope you win an oscar, Mickey…Pat Jordan, from the bottom of my heart, GO FUCK YOURSELF.
I’m surprised, Nikki, that you missed the most obvious reason the NY Times did a hit piece on him (and not on that overhyped wannabe, Sean Penn, that you mentioned): Rourke had repeatedly defended George W. Bush during th Iraq War.
Of course the liberal rag NY Times isn’t going to forget that “transgression” of Mr. Rourke’s right to his own conservative opinions.
Wow! The magazine went to Rourke’s step father and he denied the abuse??? Go figure a man denying such a terrible accusation — so yes, indeed, Mickey must be lying, because if the man was abusing him he would admit to it on the spot, right??? Come on…right? Ask yourselves, this, after all Rourke has been through publicly and and things we do not know about, why would Mickey lie??? He would not is the right answer.
The NYT wants “Milk” to be the Oscar darling,for political reasons.
To this end, its major competitor – “The Wrestler” – must be targeted and damaged.
That’s the story. Happens every year.
I agree the author should have talked to other family members, not just the stepfather. I’m glad his sisters set the record straight. As for Rourke talking abut the alleged abuse as a publicity stunt during Oscar season – that is simply untrue. Rourke has mentioned this alleged abuse in interviews for many years, not just now. He is simply explaining it as one of the factors that led to his self-destruction.
Gee- a whiff of elitism from the NYT? Who would have thought such a thing possible…?
I don’t know who that writer thinks he is?! He was so unfair and the tone of the writing, the actual verbage, was SO UNTimes-like. So NOT sophisticated and the tone of the article was so hateful! I coincidentely went to the same High School as Mr. Rourke (though I am 10 years younger), and everybody here thinks they have the real story… because they passed him in the halls after 3rd period. But he has true fans, and we see that he really deserves the Oscar this year. Love Mr. Penn, but Mickey will always be the hottest!
I think Nikki is right on. Whether Mickey is full of lies or not, the piece definitely smacked of classism and elitism, and no, Langella and Penn wouldn’t be subject to the same skeptical eye.
Just read another piece making fun of Mickey’s emotiona volatility in interviews. Sad that now actors have to be warm, spunky, together, ready-for-99-interviews-at-a-junket types like Reese Witherspoon or Tom Hanks, or they’re caricatured as freakozoids or phonies. Can’t artists be artists? Do they all have to behave like corporate spokesmodels?
Hmmm…I read that article when it came out researched Pat Jordan and saw that he was a sports writer.Why a sports writer writing this piece?In any event neither Penn nor Langella are the actor Rourke was in his hey dey.I hope the Wrestler opens up some real opportunities for Rourke,the best actor other than Brando that I’ve ever laid eyes upon.
Regardless (or irregardless, even) how good ‘The Wrestler’ is, Rourke is in the Hall of Fame already for ‘Barfly’ and ‘The Pope of Greenwich Village’.
Leave it to the NY Slimes not to ask tough questions of Obama, yet crucify Mickey Rourke. For the record I ran into him at Fox Searchlight’s Christmas party Wednesday night, and he could not have been nicer, taking the time to talk to journalists like me (also a fan), etc.
I’m very happy to see all the responses here. I was so disgusted and bored by this piece in the NYT mag, I stopped reading and tossed it aside. NYC newspapers not just the NYT are full of hacks these days. Not the first time I’ve said that and it won’t be the last.
Silly Rabbit, didn’t you know about the NY Slimes — ERRR! — NY Times?
Things that really matter — i.e. properly vetting the least experienced Presidential Candidate in our nation’s history — get a pass.
Tearing apart an actor who’s trying to resurrect his dead in the water career is of vital national importance!
Any wonder why the NY Times, the one-time standard of professional journalism, has become a laughing stock?
Bankruptcy much?
Give me a break… The article was about Mickey’s life – past, present and hopes for the future… and most importantly, to promote his new movie – which has received rave reviews. Mickey has openly admitted his past mistakes, his anger issues and his need to be a macho man. At the same time, the writer has depicted Mickey’s reflection of life and his growth. As for the bits about his childhood and dad, this was not an investigative report. Mickey made his claims and his stepfather has the right to say his side. Whether or not his siblings threw in their 2-cents, the bottom line is that no one knows the truth, except for them. Bottom line – Mickey Rourke continues to evolve as an actor and human being… and the article clearly showed that.
NYTimes is not long for the world, but we will never forget Mickey.
Jordan seems to have something against people who report abuse. He did an article for NYT about Dave Pelzer, author of ‘A Child Called ‘It’ around 2002 and also accused him of making up the story even with abuse documentation. Jordan shows a pattern of bringing in his own personal issues and feelings to reporting.
Nikki,nice job following up with Mickey’s sisters.Pat Jordan should be remembered as a fiction writer not a journalist.I believe the NYT in the past has had individuals who created bogus stories to fit their view of the world.Didn’t those people get fired?
I had just read the NY Times article this week and was wondering if Mickey Rourke had thrown bs out all these years and was the kind of jerk who would fake tears about abuse that never happened. But during interviews Mr. Rourke has always been so raw, direct, and seemingly truthful that I wasn’t sure what to think, especially since I am just a movie fan and don’t know him as a person. I guess I’m one of those sappy Americans who like redemption stories because it was good to read that his family backs him up. He may have been a jerk in person about other things throughout his life, but I believe him. And I like his rough edges.
Whew! Just finished reading the new Men’s Health article about Mickey Rourke. It referenced how angry his sisters are @ Pat Jordon’s article in the NYT. Read that and have to say I was sickened by the biased, smarmy tone of the entire piece. First of all, it was so poorly written I’m amazed it made it into the Times. Secondly, how naive must a writer be to believe that the way to check facts re child abuse is to go directly to the abuser? Ridiculous! It was blatantly obvious by the comments of the stepfather that he was a very sadistic character. He tried in every way to make Mickey appear like a liar and a poser. No caring parent would have said those things, especially re MR relationship with his his beloved brother. If Pat Jordon couldn’t see the underlying cruely and deceptionof this man, he has NO business being a writer MR is trying to explain how the scars of his childhood created a self destructive pattern in his adult life. Some things are so painful to talk about that they WILL bring tears to the eye EVERY time they are spoken about.
A much better writer was needed for a piece on a man as complicated as Rourke. Jordan and The Times should be ashamed of this hack piece. I wish MR the best.