
Men of a Certain Age is officially dead. Following the dramedy’s cancellation by TNT, series creators Ray Romano and Mike Royce had shopped the series around. Now they took to the “Save Men of a Certain Age” Facebook page, whose online petition has garnered more than 10,000 signatures, to announce that those efforts have been unsuccessful and they are reluctantly throwing in the towel. Here is Romano and Royce’s gracious open letter to fans titled Hold Your Head Up:
Hi folks,
Sorry I haven’t been in touch. Unfortunately there’s been nothing to report. And at this point, since we want to be straight with you guys, I have to tell you that we’ve kind of reached the end of the road. Hard to admit, but it’s true.
If you can think of a network, we called them. Of course, “Men of a Certain Age” doesn’t really belong on certain networks. But we called them too. We called everybody. We tried online, satellite, alternate content providers, corporate sponsorship, Taxi TV, filmstrips… everything. We’ve exhausted every possibility and then some.
I was certainly hoping – actually, naively expecting a different outcome. I thought somebody would pick us up. Ray and I feel strongly that there are places where MOACA would not only be an excellent fit, but a home run. But we couldn’t persuade others to see it that way. And at a certain point, you gotta move on.
Sure, a miracle could still happen somehow. So please don’t “unlike” this page or unsign the petition. It’s still good to be able to show the world how much you guys care about the show.
We can’t thank all you enough. So many of you have worked your asses off to help us find the show a home. To see the support continue to pour in now weeks and weeks later is really incredible.
It’s also hard to express how grateful we are to the awesomely talented 200+ people who made the show. The cast and the crew were not only the best but made it a joy to come to work each day.
And we also want to thank TNT. I know it’s natural to look at it like “they’re the ones who cancelled it,” but a more accurate viewpoint is “they’re the ones who put it on.” Honestly, the notion that a show about the lives of three 50 year olds was on television at all in this day and age is a miracle. It shouldn’t be, but it is. On top of that TNT gave us the rare opportunity to do the show the way we wanted.
The end result is, we’re proud of the work, proud of the critical response and mostly proud that the show seems to have secured a deep place in people’s hearts that isn’t always reached. Like some of you, we feel a little like we’ve lost a friend. But the good news is, the 22 episodes live on. They even end in a good place (if too soon).
So think of us as not as a cancelled show but a “mini-series by accident.”
Because really that’s our biggest hope: if you are a fan, turn other people on to it. We want it to live on. Hey, for better or for worse, the ratings tell us there are plenty of people out there who haven’t seen “Men of a Certain Age.” We hope they check it out.
Thanks, and see you on the hill.
—Mike Royce & Ray Romano
TV Editor Nellie Andreeva - tip her here.


I’m glad Breaking In Came back, but come on! This show is so much better. Such a disappointing that this isn’t coming back.
It was a great show! Looked forward to it each Monday night…perhaps we could have off some of these other crappy shows and replace them with Men of a Certain Age!! Just a thought -
I agree…MOACA had a great balance of heart and humor. It was well written and the acting was excellent. I looked forward to it each week and just finished re-watching Season One. It was the male version of Sex In The City and I really enjoyed hearing the male point of view.
Thanks to all who were a part of the show…you are missed!
Terri
So, so sad…It’s like getting deep into a novel and suddenly finding the rest of the pages are blank.
I deeply thank you for writing a show about actual, recognizable adults. But alas, television being what it is these days, I guess you should’ve had the guys open a strip club or kidnap the president.
A truly great show, but with its ratings I’m not sure why they thought anybody else would want it.
This was such a great show but I’m not surprised that nobody stepped up to the plate.It’s tough to move shows–it mostly happens when there is a financial incentive for the corporately linked studio/financier and network (Scrubs, Medium)Plus,in a tv world where Jersey Shore, Real Housewives of Mars and The Kardashians routinely get higher ratings than this, or Mad Men..what can you expect?
The lunatics ARE running the asylum people.
Bring us something new, guys–you’re a great team. And thanks for trying.
Hate to see u guys so sad. The show was good. All it needed was a vampire hunt or some werewolves. Ray, incidentally, would make an excellent werewolf. You guys should have called Bonnie Hunt. The show would have stayed on. I love the trio and can’t thank you enough for the 22 episode. In case you’re wondering, the afterlife is great, and there’s a silver bullet just waiting for you here. lol
I am so sorry. This show was a beautiful rose in a sea of tv trash and I adored it…and the wonderful, handsome, sexy “Men”.
It is a shame to have a show of such quality go away and all that reality trash continue. I think this Men… was more real than any of the so called reality shows. Don’t give up on it please.
Everything about this show was great…from the actors to the believable story lines! In this world of reality TV, this show was such a welcome change. So sad to see it go. Oh well, I will watch my DVR episodes till the seasons come out! As Rhonda said above, try again guys…I’m sure you can come up with a winner!!! Will be waiting and watching for it!
The show sucked, sorry.
Go back to your Jersey Shore and Flavor Flav reruns, you moron.
Why don’t you go back to your exclusive enclave in Beverly Hills where you wouldn’t know reality if it hit you in the ass. This show was BORING.
you are an idiot!!
I disagree maybe you can’t connect with us older men. I sold cars for several years, it related well to real life car sales. The everyday problems that men have, and portraying them in a realistic way made the show interesting.
Some people can watch The Simpson’s or South Park, I can’t be entertained watching cartoons!!
Ignore Roger. The show was wonderful while it lasted; a breath of fresh air. Not too surprised to see it wasn’t picked up, but still very sad to see it go.
This was a truly great show. Intelligently an subtly written, directed and acted. So sorry to see it go away – but Mike Royce is still here! So I’m sure we’ll feel all those feeling again (since he wrote it) – on a new show! Good luck to Mike, Ray Romano and everyone associated with MEN OF A CERTAIN AGE. You all made a very CERTAIN impact on your viewers. Thanks for that.
First time in many years a TV drama really spoke to me. I hope it isn’t the last. So hard to find gems like MOACA in the sea of police procedurals, borderline porn and “reality” programming.
I loved loved loved this show and shall miss it dearly!
Agreed Wonk, people like Roger clearly don’t appreciate character-driven dramas that don’t have explosions and special effects.
TNT should be ashamed of themselves. What a bonehead move on their part.
Just because a show is well-written and well-acted doesn’t necessarily make it a watchable series.
I’m sure M.o.a.C.A. was a quality show, but I just can’t imagine that there’s a huge audience clamoring for a show about 3 guys coming to grips with old age, retirement, loss of functions, etc. Seems like a pretty depressing, or at least sobering, weekly watching experience.
It is your loss and I hope you do watch the brilliance of the 22 episodes we now have. They took on issues in a completely different way then your cliche explanation. Someone described it like this, “It is like eating the best steak you’ve ever had. You just know that you will now eat anything that chef makes and no matter how hard you try to explain it to your friends, words won’t do it justice.” It was hard to make it fit into TVs current box. Everyone, who hasn’t watched this show, and there were many given the poor promotion, should watch it and you will wonder how the hell they canceled it too.
Man, I was really hoping that either Reelz Channel or Direct TV was going to pick this up. It’s such a good show. Oh, well. Hopefully Ray Romano does another drama series because he was great in Men of a Certain Age.
With the exception of lending his voice to animated movies, everything Ray Romano has been involved in since Everybody Loves Raymond has failed. I found Men Of A Certain Age boring and the ratings seemed to agree with me.
Agreed. If this show were so great, it would not have been cancelled. Obviously it had some fans, but for the most part no one was watching. I tried it several times, but it was very boring. And for those who say people who didn’t like this show don’t appreciate good writing, that argument doesn’t work. Breaking Bad and Mad Men still manage to stay on the air.
I love how some people think it is their divine right to have a TV show. This sob story letter makes them look even more pathetic. If people cared, they would have watched this tripe, but they didn’t, so just go away, and go away quietly.
If you’re a writer, you understand how difficult it is to write scripts that stay close to real life without the Big Dramatic Twists! of “Our Hero is Now a Criminal” or “Our Hero Has a Deep Dark Secret in His Past.” Not to take away from the brilliance of BB or MM, but “Our hero is nice, regular guy who’s just trying to get by in a nice, regular way,” is far more of a writing challenge because you can’t distract the audience with, “And now he’s selling meth/sleeping with hot babes/turning into a vampire.” That’s why a lot of writers admire what MOCA tried to do, and are so disheartened that it didn’t work. Probably the show closest to what they attempted is Friday Night Lights.
There’s also the larger question of did it really not work? It didn’t work for people like you, accustomed to big, showy dramas. It did work for people who craved a show that was quieter and more realistic. The problem is: Whether or not it worked was not fairly tested. TNT didn’t promote it well and broke up the seasons, so a lot of would-be fans–and even devoted fans–didn’t know when it was on.
Consider Two and a Half Men. It was given the time-slot after “Everybody Loves Raymond,” then the hottest multi-cam on television. It’s stayed on Monday nights ever since. Millions of people think the writing is hilariously funny. Millions of other people think the writing is painfully unfunny. Obviously, the first group’s been carrying the day for nine years.
How much of 2.5 Men’s early success was due to scheduling? How much to the writing and acting? If 2.5 Men might’ve died on another network or in a different time-slot, could Men of a Certain Age have lived? Granted, I don’t think any network programmer in his or her right mind would’ve given MOCA a prime berth like 2.5 Men got, but if it had been on a more demographically appropriate network, like CBS, in a low-expectations slot like Friday at 10, I think it might’ve built up a following and run for years.
I have to admit I never watched MOACA during it’s broadcast. Found it just a couple of months ago on demand, and devoured every episode. It really helped me come to terms with the end of my own marriage and recognize how life will go on -with my kids, my ex, and possible relationships. The first date episode is brilliant! Actually all of the episodes are… It’s just wrong that a show about the reality of life is less appealing than the caricature of life that passes for reality TV. It’s a shame than TNT cancelled it, and that no one else would pick it up.
Thank you for the great work!
Trouble is, we live in a world where Sarah Michelle Gellar is on the current cover of Entertainment Weekly. Now nothing against her, but really?! Sarah Michelle Geller?! New show?! The CW?! Who cares. And shows like MOACA can’t find an outlet. (sigh). Someone tell me: How does that happen? Is it just a terrific press agent or do magazines like EW take money for covers?
The show was pretty boring. Add some hot chicks next time.
Canceling MOACA speaks volumes about the current state of television, and Hollywood. Such a quality, well-written, perfectly acted show about real life, but people would seemingly rather watch vampire zombies or gruesome crime stories.
I think it speaks more of the American viewing audience’s preference for mindless reality shows!
A smart, well-written show with subtle humor and real characters. Buried in the middle of trash. **sigh** The number of shows I’m willing to spend time on is getting really, really small. This was my favorite.
TNT mishandled this show from day one – short orders which hurt as you can effectively split seasons when you only have 5 episodes air and then the show comes back for it’s next block of shows months later.
It NEVER had a chance.
Is too rare to have a good show on TV, what the hell are people thinking? Watching crap reality, especially the whoring Kardashian clan, and a great show like this can’t get enough viewers? This and “Friday Night Lights” were two great shows no longer on, but the whoring K sisters and there pit-bull-faced mother rage on. Very sad.
TK is on point — what’s wrong with an audience that seems to embrace some meaningless family of vacuous people living in Calbasas while putting high quality shows like MOCA and Friday Night Lights out to pasture? Garabage reality shows win the day for the moron viewers and intelligent people lose…Sad, sad, sad.
This was a wonderful show – beautifully written and acted – but watching it was like watching grass grow. I loved it, but at the same time found myself dreading to watch each loooong episode. And I’m someone who enjoys long novels and movies that take their time to develop characters.
The show was slow and w/o any real drama. If the writers had put as much effort into writing the show as they did trying to save it it might have been better.