Jodie Foster publishes an impassioned plea to social media to leave Kristen Stewart and her private life alone. The two women know each other well from 2001: they spent 5 months on the set of Panic Room “mostly holed up in a space the size of a Manhattan closet” when Stewart turned 11 years old and played Foster’s daughter. Foster in The Daily Beast on Wednesday decries social media scrutiny for young actors:
We seldom consider the childhoods we unknowingly destroy in the process… I have been an actress since I was 3 years old, 46 years to date. I have no memories of a childhood outside the public eye. I am told people look to me as a success story… The truth is, like some curious radioactive mutant, I have invented my own gothic survival tools. I have fashioned rules to control the glaring eyes. Maybe I’ve organized my career choices to allow myself (and the ones I truly love) maximum personal dignity. And, yes, I have neurotically adapted to the gladiator sport of celebrity culture, the cruelty of a life lived as a moving target. In my era, through discipline and force of will, you could still manage to reach for a star-powered career and have the authenticity of a private life. Sure, you’d have to lose your spontaneity in the elaborate architecture. You’d have to learn to submerge beneath the foul air and breathe through a straw. But at least you could stand up and say, I will not willfully participate in my own exploitation. Not anymore. If I were a young actor or actress starting my career today in the new era of social media and its sanctioned hunting season, would I survive? Would I drown myself in drugs, sex, and parties? Would I be lost?
I’ve said it before and I will say it again: if I were a young actor today I would quit before I started. If I had to grow up in this media culture, I don’t think I could survive it emotionally… Another actress might surely have taken my place, opened her soul to create those characters, surrendered her vulnerabilities. But would she have survived the paparazzi peering into her windows, the online harassment, the public humiliations, without overdosing in a hotel room or sticking her face with needles until she became unrecognizable even to herself?
Just to set the record straight, a salary for a given on-screen performance does not include the right to invade anyone’s privacy, to destroy someone’s sense of self.
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That was a girl in Panic Room? I always wondered.
Very well said. Every time Pattinson makes a move, she’s ready with a new story to leak. The smartest thing Summit could do right now is to cut her completely out of promotion instead of shoving her down our throats. People just want to enjoy the movie and not have to be subjected to giving her yet another forum for her ridiculousness. After all, Edward was always the draw. If they were smart they would just use Rob and the actress playing his daughter. That’s all anyone wants to see anyway.
Funny, for someone who values her privacy so much, she certainly courted the media every chance she got. Now she doesn’t like the intrusion and is going for sympathy. It’s even funnier that she doesn’t get how transparent her attempts at pr spin are. She just doesn’t get it.
Um, you have to be an idiot to think Stewart’s team is leaking all of these stories…or believe that she has the worst PR team in history. She made the bad choice of publicly apologizing, but that’s about all she’s done in terms of PR besides a few other “leaks” to People Magazine. Tabloids make up shit 99% of the time. Foster finds the public shaming to be disgusting, as do I. People fuck up and do bad things at time. However, NOBODY deserves the crap that Kristen Stewart’s been given over making a shitty decision that millions of people make. She didn’t commit a capital crime. She did something that 50 percent of Hollywood has done…People are empathetic towards Stewart because this public stoning has gone way over the top. If we had a week full of tabloid stories, okay. I wouldn’t be feeling any sympathy. However, to have supposed journalists like “Lisa Ling” making sanctimonious quotes on twitter and generally being treated like she murdered a bunch of children…That’s why I feel sympathy for her.
I had the pleasure of working with this woman on a film several years ago. This was after the Hinkley horror she had to endure. On set, she is a warm, present, and lovely lady. Off set, she ate lunch in her car. This brilliant woman was thrown to the front lines in terms of the fear that a celebrity faces. Performers are just doing a job – same as a coal miner or accountant. It’s a job. I completely agree with what she says and understand where she’s coming from. What needs to happen are laws and mandates regulating social media and the paprazzi. We all have a voice in this country. Use it! This is more than an invasion of privacy.
If you reap gigantic rewards in any endeavor, you risk reaping gigantic problems. If acting is the true drive of actors, there are many ways to pursue the art and craft without engaging the monster-maker-and-destroyer that Ms. Foster laments. Theater work comes to mind…
I would easily take the millions of dollars that these idiots have in exchange for being called out on my bullshit by the public and media.
For someone at an entertainment business website, your comment is very bizarre.
I’m sorry but you are either not very bright, or the world’s most naive adult. If anyone thinks being a famous movie star is akin to being a coal miner…what else is there to say really. And who will create these “mandates” on social media? This isn’t China you dope.
Yes, the social media today has crossed every line and is out of control.
However, actors know fullw well what they are getting into when they choose their profession. And I don’t believe any actor (sorry, Jeremy Renner) who claims that they don’t want fame or celebrity. Every actor, deep in their hearts, wants success and, in the entertainment industry, success is, for better or worse, is equated with fame and celebrity.
Furthermore, when actors become public figures, especially those with strong youth followings, they must realize that they represent role models for their fans and, so, they should accept that responsibility and behave with caution. With all the tabloid pubs and online scandal sheet journalism today, and the constant barrage of Hollywood scandals, actors still believe that they won’t get caught; and, then, they cry foul when they do.
Yes, everyone deserves privacy, but the nature of acting and the entertainment industry does not allow it. And, if you want to participate in the glamourous lifestyle of Hollywood, you need to accept this fact and accept any repercussions from your actions.
I’m tired of this blame game. Everyone needs to start taking responsibility for their own behavior. Stop blaming the media, the fans, the critics, the studios, family, peers, etc.
True to a point. But let’s not forget that these child actors – and their parents – are far more interested in being movie stars than actors. An actor can have a full and rich life in the theater without having to worry about the paparazzi and all these other issues. Being a movie star is a different pursuit, and it comes with a price.
The abuse I’ve seen thrown at Kristen Stewart has been unlike anything I’ve ever witnessed before. And for what? None of us knows exactly what took place that day. We have some pictures but as we all know they can be deceptive and cropped in such a way to look far more damning. Where is the video and why so few pictures? Is there a chance that only a few pictures were published because they were the ones that fit the “story” and if all of the pictures were shown everyone would know the true story is far less salacious?
I find it hard to believe that a private girl like Kristen Stewart who can fly to Budapest unseen would meet up w/a married man in broad daylight and in public w/the intent to “hook up.” We all know tabs lie but suddenly everyone is treating their stories as gospel. Maybe the truth isnt exactly what we’ve been told… MAYBE Kristen met up w/her director/friend not expecting anything to happen but ended up in an awkward situation w/a 40 something yr old man who was also her “boss.” MAYBE she didnt know how to handle the situation and tried to joke it off and play along because she was uncomfortable and didnt want to hurt the working relationship. MAYBE Rob was hurt at first because she didnt tell him what happened but after hearing the whole story has forgiven her. See what I mean? We can make up any story we want to go along w/those pics. Nobody really knows what happened that day but we are putting our faith in a tabloid story and crucifying a 22 yr old girl who has never done anything except work hard and try to keep her private life off the front pages. Shame on all of us.
No none of us knows. But when the photog announced he was publishing his pictures and then the director goes and apologizes to his wife and family, you have reason to believe its not all made up.
I also do not think that a young lady who has been an actress since she was a preteen does not know how to handle a director for inappropriate advances, especially considering that with her career the power is on her side.
So you never made something bad? So you are a baby.We are human and everybody made bad thing. You are.Not.perfect.
I don’t remember that the attention Kristin S got when she got the Twilight role, starred in the movies, went on to do the Snow White movie being unwanted. It was when the news of her hookup with a married director who has two little kids that her public turned on her. Yes – the social media has gotten out of hand with people who always are out of control but what is going on with Stewart is not about the social media, or the paparazzi or her legions of fans because they have been around for years. It is about those people going negative because of what she did. All the attention she was getting was okay before, just not now when its critical of her behavior. So it’s ‘don’t criticize me for unacceptable behavior, pay to see my movies and leave me alone.’ Nice rules to live by if you can get ‘em.
Three – what nonsense. Sara was not referring to what Jodie went through with that lunatic, rather to what she has to say now about how horrible it is to be young, rich, and famous today in the age of social media. A little perspective vis a vis about the actual existential seriousness of these problems vs. what “real people” have to face is not a pissing contest, and your broken arm analogy doesn’t wash either. Put Kristen in Appalachia, with a couple kids, no money, no future, she’d come screaming back to Robertson Blvd with a sandwich board on saying, “I’m back, what was I complaining about!”
Live & Let Live!
What Jodie says rings true, not only of Hollywood but sports as well. Just because we view these individuals on the screen or our TV sets, does not entitle anyone to delve into their personal lives. The only difference between athletes or entertainers can be boiled down to one simple fact – they chose a different profession. They are still human, and experience the same emotions we do. Far too many people harbor envy, jealously or feelings of insecurity, and resort to tearing someone else down to make themselves feel better.
Ask yourself if you would enjoy your personal and private lives on constant display for all to see.
The comments here merely prove Foster’s point.
Why do I give a f*ck what some 22 year old single chick does. Why do you?
I’ve always liked Jodie. I agree 100% with her.
Jodie, the reality of is that most people are insensitive and cruel period, they bully regular kids on line as well leading them to commit suicide….
Rule #1 for any actor or actress is to be fiercely private from the start, and don’t feel flattered by fame or the attention, don’t go on Facebook or Twitter etc….don’t put yourself out there helping people to attack you to begin with….when you’re known they will follow you, hunt you down, search for you desperately with fascination to study you , get to know you , gather information on you etc….they will find you any way without your help….so for any talents who are so taken by the attention and fame, need to learn to be more discreet and very private so they can prevent invasion of their privacy or minimize the damages should I say? People find me where ever I am and I couldn’t be more under the radar….Meryl Streep lives in the suburbs on the East coast far away from Hollywood so she can have a normal life…..for all talents living in the heart of the industry, either move away or just hide period….don’t seek for attention…..and you have to be emotionally strong and ignore all the garbage thrown at you….live and do everything with integrity and they will not have anything bad to say about you…..
Our private life is something we must be discreet and protect it fiercely regardless of who we are…..just know all eyes are on you, smile and just pretend you’re nobody and be normal and that you don’t know they’re following you and watching you:) it’s the best advise I can say right now….people are mean, evil and they will do what they want to do, the only action we can control is our own…ignore their meanness, pettiness, and don’t read mean things written about you because they’re just snake venom any way….most of the time are LIES and exageration, so focus on what is positive and blind yourself to anything that is toxic and negative!!!
Oh, those celebrities. Always want to be paid millions of dollars, live in rich house and be adored by everyone. And when something if off – then begins the whining: “Oh, I’m poor rich pretty celebrity who has everything in her life. I want to be adored every second by every person. And you are all cruel people of you don’t worship me. You should be ashamed of yourself. Now I’m gonna go to my pool, took wine for $20 000 a bottle and cry for my tough life”….
Jodie Foster is at that point when Kristen Stewart should be ashamed that Jodie defends her
Kristen joined the list of Gibson and Polanski. That is not good company. When will Jodie write a letter in defense of Chris Brown?
Its sad but with today’s technology nobody is safe from a peering eye.
It would be nice to have, but even Joe Neighbor has the ability to record, print,post even the most awkward moments we have with little or no repercussions.
I only see it getting worse. not better.
So, so true. I feel so lost in this age and I have great fears for the future. I am only 20, but I have grown to depsise social media and the types that frequent it. As a private individual I have no interest in these websites celebrating attention seeking, narcissistic behaviour. I really hope that something will change soon and people will see that these websites are limiting our potential and are destructive.
Jodie is loyal to her friends when they are going through rough times. She does not abandon them for her own personal gain. She sticks by them even if she takes a hit for doing it. That’s admirable in my book and the kind of character we are in dire need of in a time of a “me first” generation.