The 77-year-old Hollywood manager and movie/TV producer died tonight from complications when his kidneys failed after a long illness stemming from heart disease. Bernie Brillstein's longtime partner Brad Grey and his longtime client Lorne Michaels made arrangements for a memorial service Monday at 6 PM at UCLA. I'm told his funeral will be private. Like most everyone in Hollywood, I loved Bernie. Because he was that rarity in showbiz, an astute student of Hollywood history who also learned from it. And he understood the proper use of power in this town, as opposed to the abuse of power, in a way most did not.
Though his father was in the millinery business in New York, Brillstein majored in advertising and marketing in college. He scored two interviews at Madison Avenue agencies thanks to the influence of his uncle, Jack Pearl, an ex-Ziegfield Follies comedian who had become a radio star doing the voice of Baron Munchausen. But in the 1950s advertising was notoriously non-Jewish and the agencies gently hinted that to Brillstein. “They said, ‘Bernie, you’re terrific. But this is no place for you to be,’” Brillstein once said to me. “I loved them for being honest.” Instead, Brillstein landed a job in the mailroom at the William Morris office on Broadway.
After just three months, Brillstein was placed in the Morris publicity department, where his job consisted of writing bios for the agency’s biggest stars and canvassing the nightclub owners and TV bookers with flyers. When the department head retired, Brillstein, not yet out of his twenties, was put in charge. “Working in publicity in an agency is like being in charge of valet at a parapalegic camp,” Brillstein quipped to me. He was moved into commercials. So Brillstein began cold-calling the commercial bookers and pushing Morris clients for ad spots on radio and TV. With an easy laugh and honed sense of humor, Brillstein was a born “people person,” the kind strangers and colleagues alike felt they could trust the first time they met him. He easily established relationships within his new world, befriending one of his new clients, Edward R. Murrow. Brillstein personally pushed the journalist’s pioneering TV show, Person to Person. Thanks to smart decisions like that, Brillstein built his department, generally considered a loser, into a $2.5 million a year business. His success caught the eye of Morris’ powerful head of TV packaging, Wally Jordan, who brought Brillstein into the TV department to build on the connections with managers he’d forged in the commercials department. Bernie even managed to sign two clients away from then No. 1 agency MCA. The signings caught the attention of Marty Kummer, a former top agent with Wasserman at MCA who had opened a management firm with his biggest client, Jack Paar and offered Bernie a job. Brillstein liked the idea of advising and guiding a star’s career, so in 1963 Brillstein left Morris for Martin Kummer Associates. (When the two brought aboard manager Jerry Weintraub some years later, the firm’s name was changed to Management 3).
At Morris, a colleague asked Brillstein to meet with a little-known puppeteer, Jim Henson, whose acts included Kermit the Frog and Rowlf the Dog. Brillstein signed him immediately and then booked him on the Jimmy Dean Show. Two months after Brillstein left Morris, Jim Henson called and said, “I need you.” Over the next decade, Brillstein made a fortune representing not only Henson but also the producing team of John Aylesworth and Frank Peppiatt. The producers came up with an idea for a corn-pone version of Laugh-In for the country-western set called Hee Haw and, in 1969, Brillstein helped package the show to CBS. Though the network cancelled the show in 1971, Hee Haw was sold into syndication, where it ran for another 23 years, becoming one of the longest-running shows in TV history, pulling in millions of dollars in licensing fees and making Brillstein a rich man.
In 1970, Brillstein left Management 3 and moved to Los Angeles, where he decided to go it alone. He built up a list of top comedy writers, including The Bob Newhart Show’s Tom Patchett and Jay Tarses and comedy writers Lorne Michaels and Alan Zweibel, and he packaged them all into new TV shows for the networks. By 1975, Brillstein was one of the hottest personal managers and TV packagers in the entertainment business. In that year alone, he sold both The Muppet Show, brainchild of puppeteer Jim Henson, and Saturday Night Live, created by Lorne Michaels. The story behind SNL is now legendary, but it bears repeating: when Michaels and Brillstein came to pitch the idea of SNL to NBC, the network executives simply stared at the men. “They said, ‘Who are these Jews from California?’ They absolutely hated us,” Brillstein remarked. When SNL's first show generated 200 complaints, NBC wanted to pull the plug. It was Brillstein who fought to keep it on the air. “You idiots,” Brillstein told them. “Don’t you realize you have a hit here?”
As SNL grew in the ratings, so did the popularity of its cast, and almost overnight the show produced break-out stars in Second City alumni John Belushi, Dan Aykroyd, Gilda Radner, who all relied solely on Brillstein’s managerial advice and support. The first time Brillstein met John Belushi was 15 minutes before the first taping of Saturday Night Live. Two days earlier, NBC’s legal department had sent Belushi an interim employment agreement. The actor was worried about a small clause that said NBC had the right to cancel his contract if the comedian were “disfigured.” Now, with the cameras ready to roll, the actor still hadn’t signed. An NBC executive was desperately pleading with him to sign the agreement when Belushi leaned over to Brillstein and asked, “Would you sign this contract?”
“I designed the fucking contract,” Brillstein replied. “And you can always break it.”
It was the beginning of a long and close friendship, almost like father and son. Brillstein was fiercely protective of the troubled comedian, defensive when people complained about his work habits, his unreliability and, more critically, his growing drug use. Brillstein understood obsessive behavior. During the 1970s, Brillstein had beat a gambling problem. He also liked to eat, and his weight problems had forced him into perennial attire of baggy sweaters. (Client Richard Dreyfuss called him “Shelley Winters with a beard.”)
By 1980, Belushi and Aykroyd had left SNL to become the hottest comedic actors in Hollywood. Brillstein loved making deals for them over breakfast at the Polo Lounge of the Beverly Hills Hotel. But Brillstein had made most of his money in TV. He had only dabbled in feature films and, frankly, been skewered almost every time out. He had secured a $35,000 contract for Belushi to appear in 1978’s National Lampoon’s Animal House, an enormous sum given the fact that Belushi had no film experience. Aykroyd, too, could have had a part but declined in order to keep on writing for Saturday Night Live. But like most performers, Belushi was impatient for success. He felt the fast track lay in Hollywood films. He had been in three minutes of the 1977 Jack Nicholson vehicle Goin’ South. Now Belushi and Aykroyd felt there was a future in their April 1978 SNL characters of Joliet Jake and his silent brother, Elwood. They asked Brillstein to convince Atlantic Records to produce an album for $125,000, Briefcase Full of Blues, which was released in December 1978. Then Brillstein booked the Blues Brothers to appear as the opening act in a 9-night engagement that comedian Steve Martin had scheduled at the Universal Amphitheater in Los Angeles the next fall.
Over the next months Aykroyd expanded the act into a full-length Blues Brothers movie. By then, Animal House was the No. 1 movie in the country. That summer, Belushi phoned then Universal exec Sean Daniels about Blues Brothers, and Daniels bit. Brillstein was thrilled how it was all turning out. But he resisted Steven Spielberg's coaxing Belushi to take a part in 1941 for $350,000. Brillstein liked the money but argued against the project on the grounds that Spielberg had never done comedy and the script was not really that funny. But Belushi told Brillstein, “I can’t turn down Spielberg.”
Meanwhile, Brillstein was fighting with Universal for a bigger piece of the Animal House pie -- $60 million so far on Uni's negative cost of $2.7 million -- for Belushi and himself. Thom Mount, then head of Universal, was trying to make a 3-picture deal for Belushi. Ok, Brillstein said, but a discussion of the future might begin with the past. Why not agree to give Belushi some retroactive percentage of the Animal House profits? But Universal wouldn’t budge. In the end, Mount would only offer a $250,000 bonus for Belushi if he signed the deal -- take it or leave it. Brillstein left the office and called Belushi, who had only one demand: Get the check today. Brillstein and Belushi signed the 3-picture deal: $350,000 for 1941, $500,000 for The Blues Brothers and $750,000 for a third movie Continental Divide. But Brillstein's take of the Blues Brothers was only $150,000 -- peanuts, as far as he was concerned. So, in 1980, Brillstein signed with CAA's Michael Ovitz. Except for Jim Henson, Brillstein’s clients signed with CAA as well. The relationship paid off immediately: Ovitz did a deal for Neighbors guaranteeing Belushi $1.25 million, and Brillstein $400,000. “I nearly shit,” Brillstein recalled.
Managers traditionally charged 15% of a client’s salary. But Brillstein had long ago found a much more profitable way of generating income as a TV packager. Using his stable of A-list writer-producers to create projects, Brillstein would load as many of his own writers onto a show as he could, generating even more fees, and then attach himself as executive producer and sell it to a network. As executive producer, Brillstein not only collected a producer’s fee but also profit sharing and backend participation. With syndication and licensing fees, a hit show could bring in millions upon millions. Now Bernie was packaging himself into Belushi's and Aykroyd's movies as well. But unlike TV, an executive producer on a movie was for the most part an empty title. Usually it was given to someone who was in control of a project at one point and then lost it, but was still bound to the project contractually. Other times it was a quid pro quo, for example, a payback for delivering the rights to some material. In Brillstein’s case, to put it bluntly, it was a “bribe,” the price the studio had to pay him to deliver his stars. A manager putting himself in business with his own clients was, to say the least, a gray area. It could be argued that the arrangement was better for the client because it saved him paying the manager's commission. But it was also a conflict of interest. No matter how straight a manager played it, the fact that such questions could even be raised was troubling for many. But seemingly such matters did not concern Brillstein or Brillstein’s clients.
By now Bernie was having a tough time keeping Belushi’s drug problems from careening the comedian's career. Belushi by 1982 was living in a bungalow at the Chateau Marmont and hounding Brillstein for cash. The day before he died of an overdose in Bungalow 3, Belushi told Brillstein he loved him. Bernie was called when Belushi's body was found on March 5th. The ambulance rushed the actor to Cedars-Sinai. While Brillstein waited, he received the one call he had always dreaded. He dropped the receiver. He would never see his friend and client again. The remorse was overwhelming. Followed by anger over first investigative journalist Bob Woodward's book Wired blaming Brillstein and the rest of Belushi's entourage for not doing enough to help the comedian's drug addiction, and then the movie.
Aykroyd and Brillstein sold Ghostbusters with both of them attached. Brillstein had bought the rights to the screeplay from his client for $1. But surprisingly, the studios were reluctant to bite once the script went out. The screenplay relied heavily on silly slapstick and oneliners and not everybody got it. And Aykroyd, who would star, had yet to prove he could carry a movie without his Blues Brothers sidekick. “Universal had it first and passed; John Landis passed; a lot of people passed on it,” Brillstein told me. “But we owned it and I was instrumental in keeping it alive.” So was Ovitz who helped structure a difficult deal with Columbia. Released in 1984, Ghostbusters quickly became the highest grossing comedy of all time.
By 1986, Brillstein had never been hotter in TV, packaging Buffalo Bill, Open All Night, The Days and Nights of Molly Dodd and The Gary Shandling Show. Brillstein had a commitment to NBC for another show and thought puppeteer Paul Fusco's and writer-client Tom Patchett's Alf might be the perfect project. Fusco, Brillstein and Patchett all met in Brandon Tartikoff’s office to present their pitch. But the presentation, as Brillstein put it, was going in the “crapper.” Then suddenly Fusco reached into a bag and pulled out Alf, who promptly exploded in a huge sneeze, then wiped his nose on Tartikoff’s arm. Stunned, the NBC executive laughed hysterically. Tartikoff grasped the marketing and licensing potential immediately and bought the series on the spot. Alf immediately shot to the top of the ratings and soon there were Alf plush toys everywhere. Brillstein had added another cash cow.
But then Brillstein's luck changed. He became embroiled in a long-running feud with Michael Ovitz and CAA. He took an ill-fated job as head of Lorimar Entertainment's new movie studio thinking it would give him the stature in Hollywood he had long deserved. But Bernie also knew the moment he gave up his management company he would lose all his clients and his power base. At the time, The Brillstein Company guided the careers of such in-front-of-the-camera talents as Dabney Coleman, Richard Dreyfuss, Peter Falk, Garry Shandling, Bronson Pinchot, Gilda Radner, Jim Belushi, Geena Davis, Andy Williams, Norm Crosby, Thelma Hopkins, Marsha Mason and George Wendt. His writer clients included Jim Henson, Pat Lee, John Moffitt, Alan Rafkind, Jay Tarses, Dave Thomas, Alan Zweibel, Sheldon Keller, Buzz Kohan, Marty Pasetta, Perry Rosemont, Kenny Solms and Barry Sand. In addition, Brillstein was the executive director of five network TV series -- Alf, It’s Garry Shandling’s Show, The Days and Nights of Molly Dodd, The Slap Maxwell Story, and The Nell Carter Show.
But Brillstein, as always, had a solution: why didn’t Adelson purchase Brillstein’s company? Brillstein not only sold his management company to Lorimar for $26 million but retained control of the firm as well. To avoid the appearance of a conflict of interest even though one certainly existed, Brillstein agreed to take a salary of only $1 a year for his new position as CEO of Lorimar Film Entertainment. As Variety noted, the deal created “one heaping big show business macher.”
But soon Brillstein's representation of Aykroyd ended. Then Merv Adelson, without warning, agreed to sell Lorimar-Telepictures and all its holdings, including the movie company and Brillstein’s management company, to Warner Bros. The studio quickly folded Lorimar into Warners, and Bernie found himself out of a job. He was forced to start all over again. Brillstein took his golden parachute and decided to go back into the management business. He also took a very young Brad Grey under his wing. Together, the two were able to sign back many of Bernie’s former clients and start the careers of many new hot young ones. Slowly Grey took over the running of the company, named Brillstein-Grey Entertainment by 1991, until 2005 when Brad left to become chairman/CEO of the Paramount Motion Picture Group.
It was an incredible testament to Brillstein's legacy that, when Brillstein-Grey decided in June 2007 to rebrand itself, the talent management and movie/TV production entity paid homage to its founder and mentor by renaming itself Brillstein Entertainment Partners. Said Brillstein in the press release, “It’s been a pleasure seeing this company evolve over the past 38 years.”
And it was a pleasure to know you, Bernie.


I worked for Bernie for 5 years, he was an old timer who understood the biz, had a dirty old man sense of humor and never met a pretty girl he didn’t like.
RIP Bernie, you were a true true dirty old man and I say that with all the love I know how to type. An age passes with you.
Bernie always took the time, and enjoyed, to give the younger generation in this business advice and guidance. He made himself available. He will be missed, he was one of a kind.
as powerful as he was, he was one of the more pleasant power players I have ever come across. he actually acknowledged my presence (I’m a Hollywood nobody) without a hint of douche-baggery on numerous occasions. one of the nicer guys out here. it always blew my mind when I was in the same room as him. legend.
Bernie was a great guy and a true legend. Always took the time to take care of the little people and was nice to everyone I knew that interacted with him.
Jewish Santa Claus, you will be missed.
A great guy, a classic, a Hollywood legend, always willing to shoot the shit at The Palm…the end of an era.
A great guy, a classic, a Hollywood legend, I will remember him as a willing and funny mentor who was always happy to shoot the shit in in his booth at The Palm…the end of an era.
Bernie was an unbelievable presence walking the halls at Brillstein-Grey. Always the first exec in the office, he stopped at my desk daily to get the latest industry news, which the assistants knew to be on top of. It’s been ten years but the TV dept at Brillstein was the absolute best experience to cut industry teeth on and there was no better person to learn from that Bernie. This town just got a whole lot more Hollywood, as the most genuine guy in town just left the stage.
Say “Hi” to John for me, Bernie!
I was honored to be his presence. He was a true mentor.
I knew Bernie for over 10 years. i dont pretend to know him anything like his family or dear friends. he was a mentor and an inspiration to all those around him. he is an unbelievable legend for the things he accomplished throughout his career. he will also be highly regarded and remembered for the infinite number of things he did for people behind the scenes. he treated assistants and parking attendants exactly the same as the president of companies. he was a brilliant man with an incredible passion, heart and a fucking insanely great sense of humor. with love…
Nikki, your report is a class above the rest. I never knew this great man that well and if not for your piece on him, it would have passed me by regretfully.
Thank you and I am sadden indeed of his passing. Truly he seems larger than life!
Wow!
I met Bernie, and he was a giant of a man. In my experience wih him, though I wasn’t a client, he spoke honestly and straight from the heart. He gave me help and advice when I needed it and he had nothing personally to gain.
The fact that he is no longer there creates a great vacuum in this town. He was old school and up to date all at the same time.
He is already missed!
There’s no such thing as hyperbole when describing Bernie. My first real job in town was at BGE and while everyone welcomed you to the company, Bernie welcomed you to the family. A true, true great.
I’m so very sad by this news. I’ll never forget being at a Hollywood Oscar party and meeting him. He didn’t know me from a hole in the wall but talked to me like he knew me his whole life. He was hysterically funny in person and even more funnier on paper which poured out of his books. He passed his humor onto his daughter Leigh, who I worked for very breifly two years ago. My deepest sympathies to his family. Bernie was the real deal in a sea of fakers.
ML
Bernie was my manager. He was my friend. He was my second father. I’m grateful that I got to spend as much time as I did with him. He was simply the best. The world just got a lot less interesting.
Love ya kid…
I worked at Lorimar under Bernie. When the Warner Bros. takeover happened they froze all bonuses and started firing people in our features division. I sent out an ill advised inter-office memo complaining about these things that should’ve gotten me canned, too. It was happening right as I was getting married and I must’ve lost my mind worrying about paying for the wedding. But instead of getting mad Bernie laughed about it and wrote me a personal check for $1000.
A class act and true gentleman.
Bravo, Nikki. That wasn’t an obit. It was a love letter. I read every word.
And kept asking myself, “WTF don’t *writers* have guys like *that* on their side?!”
Never knew the man, but thanks to Nikki’s great reporting, I feel like I did.
Why is no one else reporting him dead?
BUMPING INTO BERNIE
Like someone just mentioned, the thing about
Bernie was his accessibility- a true anomaly in
a business as insulated as Washington politics.
This egalitarian world view seemed to keep him grounded
and placed him in a position ( also rare ) of being virtually liked by everyone- even his enemies, the few of them there may have been, probably loved the guy anyway.
I am also a nobody- a filmmaker who had a finished film that needed a home. I bumped into Bernie when I was in LA to meet my Producer’s Rep- Jeff Dowd- THE DUDE.
At the bar in Shutters, I recognized him, introduced myself, and, in an automatic reflex, started pitching him.
He listened, and a smirk came over his face. He heard the words I know (since he gave me targeted advice for 10 minutes afterwards- so gracious) but the thing I noticed, in his eyes, was his love of schmoozing- in a sincere way.
In other words- he loved seeing younger people hustle- just like him- because he was 100% born to do deals and relate to people, ideas and art.
I guess Bernie had a spirit in him that was bigger than talent, brains. money, looks or any temporal, fleeting power in this town.
He’d put movies together and manage talent for a $1 per year.
He was one of the Greats.
T. Patrick Murray
http://www.TheLastGame.com
In my mind, Bernie was one of the last remaining figures in show business who embodied all of the best of the business. He loved it for all the right reasons, had a great time and his word was his bond. We did business many times and it was my honor to interview him on camera for the TV Academy’s Archive of American Television. One of the great raconteurs of all time, I’m so glad all of those stories are forever preserved because we will never see the likes of Bernie Brillstein again.
One word sums up my experiences with Bernie… MENSCH.
Nikki:
Very impressive obit. The NYT would be proud to print this kind of work.
You deserve a Pulitzer!
I worked for one of Bernie’s major clients (a TV writer) in the 90s. I used to love it when he would call. He was a character, always enthusiastic, always colorful, always friendly to us underlings. A real contrast to Brad Grey, who while perfectly amiable, is utterly colorless compared to Bernie.
RIP Bernie. RIP Hollywood.
Bernie was a warm heart in an often cold business. Even in a “crisis,” when everyone else in the room was freaking out, you could look over at Bernie and he would shoot you a smile which said, “Don’t worry, kid, you’ll fuck ‘em another day.”
He was the first guy to call just to say he saw something you did and liked it. No agendas, he just wanted you to know.
His passion, his human touch, his understanding of the fragile creative mind, his spot-on advice, his big comforting laugh… It will all be missed.
Bravo, indeed, Nikki. What a wonderful piece about a guy that we have so few of in this town. I worked for a flak in the late 80s who had befriended Bernie, and we got a lot of clients through that relationship. We did PR for “Molly Dodd” and worked with several of the actor talent. Brillstein-Grey was a hotbed of real talent and they took their cue from the top guy. (I never met him or even spoke to him, but it was common knowledge that he was one of the good guys.) Thanks for such a terrific piece. and RIP, Bernie.
I am greatful for the sharing of the personal expereinces with Bernie, i did not know him but have for so maney years worked with arrogent low level people in this business that think they are beeter then you, it is so refreashing to to get a sence of what a truely successful person is like, it gives me hope to keep working in this field. Thanks you all for your sharing.
Danny
you left out that he was the best gossip in hollywood. he will be missed.
I only met Bernie one time some 35-years ago at an
industry party. I was a young writer just starting
out, and he spent some time talking to me, making me
feel like I was the most important person in the room.
He couldn’t do anything with the projects I was trying
to develop, but he did give me a referral which led to
getting my first pilot made. When I tried to thank
him with much gushing, he just told me to pass it on
someday to somebody else who needed a leg up.
What an attitude. What a true gentleman.
They don’t get any better than Bernie. He was a class act and brought incredible warmth and light to BEP. He will be sorely missed.
Nikki,
Thank you for your beautiful obit of a man who has inspired many of us (but, unfortunately, not enough of us). Bernie was a true mensch, a big thinker, and a terrific ambassador for Hollywood. He is among the last of a breed that, sadly, we will not see again in this town.
For those of you who haven’t, do yourself a favor and pick up Bernie’s autobiography, “Where Did I Go Right.” Forget “The Art of War,” one should be allowed to manage a client until they’ve read it.
RIP Bernie. You will be missed. May your spirit live on.
I am a client of Brillstein and though he stopped being my day-to-day when he fell ill (love ya, Tim Sarkes), I have to say that Bernie was the real deal.
I’ll never forget going with him to the Polo Lounge one night recently. He sat down and looked across the room like an overly eager kid, fresh in from the Midwest.
“Larry Flynt? Sarah Silverman? Pat Sajak? Man, this place is hot tonight!”
He was just so excited. And after dinner, he walked around the room like a statesman, and everyone knew who he was.
My biggest regret this morning is that I have no picture with the man. Sometimes you get lost talking about jobs and the business and you don’t take a picture. And now I can’t.
I will truly, truly miss you Bern. Thanks for believing in me. Love ya, kid.
Terrific, terrific obit. Never knew the man, but of course, knew of him. Makes me sad to think that generation of writers and actors will never know what it’s like to have someone like him on your side.
As an assistant, I spoke with him many times on the phone. He was always ready to help or offer a kind word – which was and remains a rarity in “The Business.”
One of the greats.
He will be missed.
RC
In this cutthroat, backstabbing business, there ARE
some decent, honorable gentlemen who have graced the
Hollywood landscape…
Frank McCarthy, Walter Mirisch, Alan Ladd, Jr., and…
Bernie Brillstein.
Rest in peace, my friend, you will be missed.
A real Mensch … yes! Hollywood did die a bit with Bernie’s passing.
A true force of nature … he was at the top of his game, and, he did make you feel like you were the most important one in the room.
A True Hollywood God indeed.
Great job Niki! Stellar! And, so deserved!
I met Bernie in the early 90’s through Sheryl and Rob Lowe. He loved them. Always supported them, and helped Rob re-establish himself at a time where it could have gone either way. He didn’t give a crap as to why Rob was down and out….everyone gets there at some point…all he knew was that Rob was good people, and that’s what mattered.
I wonder what he thinks now. He sees the truth that none of us can see until we are gone. He now knows what the real answer is.
My first agent set my old partner and I up with a meeting with Bernie in 1993. We were just starting out and he was extremely warm and encouraging and free with advice and insight and entertained us with Belushi stories and said to call anytime for help whether we worked with him or not. If only the rest of the people I’d dealt with in the business over the ensuing fifteen years were half as generous and decent.
RIP BB
great writing the ny times & wires should use this as their obit. being able to drop mr. brillstein’s name as your manager in the parking lot at the comedy store has always been one of the tier’s most comedians in hollywood aspired to reach. he was the real deal old school hollywood and he will be missed.
I’d only been at BGE 1 week when bernie yelled at me “kid, how can you have worked here a whole week and not come into my office to say hi”…and a thousand stories that followed, all of them similar to the ones we all hear, and yet each unique and specific to the only man they could belong to. I will always remember stealing capri cigarettes from his desk on late nights and the time he let me take a crap in brad’s bathroom. Not a person i know whom he knew and didnt touch in an amazing and beautiful way.
Thank you Nikki…
I’m just a humble ol’ member of the audience, a real outsider living in the Midwest, and only saw Mr. Brillstein’s name in the credits. What a wonderful man and Ms. Finke’s homage was a great read and provided deep insight to the man behind the credits. Thank you.
Kudos, as always to you Nikki. Reading your piece on Bernies passing had me melancholy, strolling down memory lane. I was fortunate enough to have had numerous business dealings with Bernie and any “business lunch” with him always turned into a lesson for me. Whether it was a lesson on life, or The Business,(which were two and the same for Bernie), you were smart to absorb all that you could from this icon. He dispensed his wisdom graciously and was the most un-selfish person I knew in a town loaded with sharks and me firsts. His rapier wit and downright dirty sense of humor made him that much more human. I’ll have a cocktail and cigar in your honor tonight my friend.
When John Lennon died I taped myself doing an impression of Father Guido Sarducci, Don Novello (one of Bernie’s clients not mentioned), doing a tribute to John Lennon with the entire tribute made up of titles to Beatle songs. I was a restaurant owner that did a little stand-up at my own place. I included my phone number. Bernie had no idea who I was but called my number and said, kid what do you do? I said I’m a restauranteur. He said good stick to it. Your impression, while amusing, was too god-damned sad. Can’t use it. Still can’t believe he called!
RIP Mr. B – I’m still cooking.
I worked at BGE in the late 90’s and every time I sat in a meeting with Bernie, I couldn’t believe my luck — and that I was getting paid for it. He was the best; everything said here is true and then some. His like will not come again and we are all the worse for it.
Bernie was a true class act, we should all pay respect to the man by leading with some of his principles – it’d be hard to do it his way, but we can do it in our own unique way. He was a pillar and symbol of everything fun and good about doing business in Hollywood.
Rest in peace, friend.
Rest in peace Bernie.
You will be missed and are impossible to replace.
A genuinely well written article. Really gives you a sense of the man. If I were a family member I would treasure it. Great job.
What wonderful tributes. I have nothing to do with the business, although I think Brad Grey’s mother-in-law might live in my parents’ condo community (how is that for connections!), but I took a kind of interest in things, and have been aware of Mr. Brillstein for a long time. His name would just show up all the time a in the credits of so many of my favorite shows. To love your work, to be kind and geenrous to your people and others, to make a pile of money doing it! Greatness!!!!!!!! This was clearly a life very well lived. Wish I had a mentor like you when I was a yuoung man. Not sure I believe in heaven, but if it exists, you are there.
Did every single Hollywood shill start their rise to moguldom in the mailroom of the William Morris agency?
Those folks must have had a LOT of mail.
I had the privilege of knowing Bernie for the past 20 years, and most recently saw him in December. He was the nicest, most genuine and beloved man I had the privilege of knowing. The industry has lost a legend. RIP.
Thanks for writing that Nikki. Helps the younger generation appreciate the history behind a legend many of us never had the pleasure of meeting.
Fantastic biography and tribute. So many more things about certain TV shows and films make so much more sense with this knowledge.
Nikki, you’ll pardon me for saying it, but this is the best piece you’ve done. Bernie was a Giant in a business of mostly midgets.
He’s already missed.
Nikki, you old softy; what evocative, caring writing! When I produced the A&E “Biography” on John Belushi years ago we had to get the usual clearances from everybody for film clips, archive interviews, stills, etc. Bernie was instrumental in facilitating much of the permissions even though he wasn’t making a dime off any of it. And then he was the only one to call afterwards to offer congratulations. What couldn’t have been more than a courtesy for him meant the world to us. Why do the good people check out early and the pricks live to 100?
Agents and managers of the moment should learn from you and be as classy as you always were, instead of being the monsters breathing fire that they are. Bernie, you will be missed.
WHEN I WAS 22 YEARS OLD, FRESH OUT OF COLLEGE, BERNIE BRILLSTEIN GAVE ME MY FIRST JOB IN TELEVISION AS A PRODUCTION ASSISTANT. HE WAS ONE OF THE MOST ENCOURAGING AND POSITIVE VOICES IN MY CAREER. OVER THE NEXT THIRTY YEARS OR SO, IF I EVER NEEDED ADVICE OR HELP, HE WOULD ALWAYS TAKE MY PHONE CALL. YOU CAN’T SAY THAT ABOUT VERY MANY PEOPLE IN THIS BUSINESS. HE WAS A TRUE MENSCH. I WILL NEVER FORGET HIS KINDNESS. MY CONDOLENCES GO OUT TO HIS FAMILY. YOU WILL BE MISSED BIG GUY.
BRIAN POLLACK
May God have mercy on his soul and those like him.
I must echo everything written here about this amazing man. I had the distinct pleasure of working with Bernie at “The Martin Short Show” and have remained friendly with him ever since. He genuinely cared about people and was fiercely loyal. He was hilarious and had THE best stories of anyone I’ve ever met. He was a class act and this is truly the end of an era. When I really miss him, thank God I can listen to his book-on-tape for “Where Did I Go Right?” and hear his one-of-kind voice and infectious laugh. Anyone who knew Bernie should do themselves a favor and go to washingtonpost.com to see a classic Bernie photo. God bless you, Bernie. You will be missed beyond compare.
A great obit on a genuinely decent man who was more of a mensch than the business deserves.
Fair weather for your travels, Mr. B.
Can we clone him? The world (and especially Hollywood) needs more people with Bernie’s character and integrity.
Thanks for the good reporting!
One of my first jobs was on a pilot as a script PA, and Bernie was one of the producers. He was always concerned with whether the script department was getting enough food and sleep. And at the end of the shoot, he gave us all Tiffany’s paperweights. He was a great guy and will be missed.
amazing tribue.
thank you for a wonderful piece, made me cry.
I read every word. and second the pulitzer.
condolences
For those of us who only know him through television & movies, we can all see right to his heart by just the work he was responsible for, the certain calibur. He brought us something great.
“Where did I go right” was a perfect title for Bernie’s autobiography. He was a man who always appreciated what he had and was always willing to share it. Whatever he achieved in life was deserved and what this outpouring of affection proves is that many of us realized it.
Bernie was a generous mentor, a self-effacing mensch with a great wit, and a great man who took his friendships more seriously than he ever took himself. We will all miss his presence in this business and in our lives.
PC – San Francisco
I am not in this business, and have no connection with the man whatsoever, but must say that if Hollywood had a few more like him, the industry (and the product it sells to the world) would be a much happier, better one
I accidentally met Bernie at a comedy club back in the late ’80’s. I was scouting and he was meeting my then boss for drinks and to check out a new talent. Although the encounter was short he left a lasting impression on me.
The man exuded kindness and greatness.
I will miss him. It truly is the end of an era.
Someone mentioned Bernie’s accessibility earlier. I called Bernie several times for stories about the studio biz and without fail he always took the call and spoke the straight truth about what was going on and who was full of it. He was the dream source for a reporter covering Hollywood trying to sift through the BS. A true legend. My heartfelt condolences to his family, business associates and friends.
I enjoyed Bernie Brillstein’s accounts of the various political maneuverings in his autobiography and thought that this was a very good and complete obit for him.
I must say this is one well written article!!! thank you for taking the time to spend on this class act!!! We lost a great one, makes you believe in the American dream again. Good luck everyone!!!
I used to park his car, never tipped less than $50 bucks!! Class baby, all the way with class.
I used to tell him “Keep all 4 tires on the road” He would stare at me in disbelief. I musta told him that 50 times over the years. Hey Mr.B- Keep all 4 tires on the road in heaven.
Karl- the parking lot valet
I knew Bernie very well and he was an original and the best lunch companion you could ever be with. Funny, engaging, and tirelessly supportive and most of all gave one the feeling that everything would work out, no matter the problem.
I also know Eric Gold very well and the post about him takes bitterness to new heights of ugliness. He is also, one of the best friends a person can have and although, maybe known to be somewhat tough in business, is also a terrific person with the best heart.
Bernie would often say that when people are happy that something good happens in their business, a great number are unhappy they succeeded.
To take a shot at Eric’s wife is the lowest and the mark of a true weasle.
People like Bernie and Eric were/are successful because they’re smart, figured the business out and made alot of firends along the way.
There’s no need for insane jealousy and hatred, especially at this time.
As a kid at NBC New York in the early 80’s I remember seeing a big, gray-haired guy walking down the halls near 8-H … and asking one of the pages “who is that guy in a Rangers sweater?” “Oh, he’s Lorne’s manager, Bernie Brillstein … great guy!”
There were a lot of Brillstein sightings back then.
Years later, I bought his autobiography. Couldn’t put it down. Still can’t. His stories were true showbiz.
Bernie Brillstein was the right person for the right time in the right places … sweaters for Elvis … representation for guys who manipulated felt [to mangle Michael O'Donoughue's famous line] and a few funny folks here and there … studio mogul … and the genius behind on- and off-screen geniuses …
An amazing career.
I have no connection to show biz, other than being in Hebrew school with Scott Rudin and Body By Jake Steinfeld 40 years ago- but I must say I am moved by the comments about this guy. I read every one of them, half expecting someone to say something less than glowing…not a one. And combine that with a dirty sense of humor- wow- sounds like you were all lucky to know this guy.
Wow, not a negative comment on this board. A guy in Hollywood every seems to like, who knew.
That obit fills in alot of holes to alot of stories I thought I knew everything about.
Thanks Nikki
He will be missed and thought about forever.
Thanks for the memories.
Nikki,
I only heard about Bernie during the day and was surprised that so far yours wasmthe only placew I read about it. A terrific obituary for I terrific guy. I have known Bernie for forty years and truly know that the movie and television business will be a lesser place without him.
RP
My husband and I were fortunate to meet Bernie and see him on several family occasions. Bob Weinstein is Bernie’s brother in law and we are friends with Bob and his wife Linda. We liked Bernie immediately, he had such a presents about him and we heard wonderful stories over the years from the Weinstein family. Our hearts go out to his wife Carrie and all of his family.
Taylor & Gustavo
I knew Bernie from SNL where I was one of the original
studio crew members. When Bernie was just standing around “quiet” with a big smile on his face, you knew
instantly that all was right with the world. Mr. Brillstein, what a void you have left but it was indeed
a pleasure to have walked in your shadow. God bless.
Yeah,thanks for my childhood memories sir!I’m just JoeBlow on the street,a 70’s kid whose memories are from your work and that inspired me to try my hand in entertainment and music-salute!
J.Williams
He was a pretty cool guy. I am glad we got to enjoy him while he was here. We’ll miss you, kid!
Bernie was an inspiration to so many of us in the representation business. He gave me some great advice during my first year in Hollywood that definitely served me well. I had the great pleasure of having lunch with him a few months ago and was just thrilled to be able to spend that time with one of the legends of our business. He touched the lives of many people and will be missed.
I only met Bernie a few times. It was many years ago, when I was a production assistant on a sitcom he was producing. But despite how low I was on the totem pole back then, especially compared to his grand stature in the history of showbiz, he was always very gracious to me. He was a kind soul. I am greatly saddened today to hear of his passing. May he rest in peace, and may more men in this town strive to be like him.
I worked at William Morris when Bernie was there and he was always a gentlemen and fun to be around. I am saddened by the news. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
I hope a video of his memorial tribute will be available. Perhaps one of the cable networks could show it live. Bernie’s last deal! It would be a great gift to all of us who can’t be there. Thanks, Bernie for your decency.
I worked with Bernie many years ago at WMA in NYC…..he was loved then as now. Cream certainly stays on the top. Nikki your tribute was truly incredible. I stumbled on your site and was saddened by the first piece I read. Sorry to say this was not published anywhere else. I called a friend who remained in the industry until a short time ago and she was totally shocked she did not hear about it. Thanks Nikki and look forward to staying in the loop thru your site.
Nikki, what a Great Tribute to a Great Man. Bernie was a gentle giant in a land of fire spewing dragons.
It was a pleasure to have met him and to have spent a little time with him and his family.So much like his his father Moe, He always remembered where he came from.
Much love to Carrie, who Bernie loved and adored and the rest of the family.
Bonnie Konigsberg and Bob Konigsberg
Bernie lived up the street from me, but we really became friends when his step-son and my son played Little League together. He was a passoniate about those games as he was about his New York Giants.
My love and respect for Bernie will live on forever, as will all the wonderful times we shared..
I will remember all the people he took care of over the years. He was considerate of people in all walks of life. Generous, emotionally and monetarily were synonymous with Bernie Brillstein. His heart and his office door were always open. He not only had a keen eye for talent, and great taste from Botero to Zegna.
Bernie was honored by the LA Free Clinic in 1987. The only way he would be honored was if they allowed him to do it “his way”. He always supported charities, but knowing Bernie, he didn’t want his friend to sit at another boring charitable dinner and promised we would be “Out by 10″. He insisted that the invitation state “Out by 10:00″, a phrase still used today on their Gala Dinner invitation.. The dinner raised over $400,000 ( a lot of money in 1987) and a ” Roast to end all Roasts” delivered by clients and friends about Bernie. It was an evening I will always remember. That night Bernie made a commitment to be active on their board. He honored his commitment from that day forward….
A giver, never a receiver. A heart of gold..A warmth that everyone felt when he walked into a room will be missed by so many, but we are all so much better for having the gift of Bernie Brillstein.
I worked on a few BGE shows in the ’90s as a PA. It’s been said before but Bernie treated me and every other PA as very few would, as people and valuable assets to the show. I still remember seeing him for the first time on the set and thinking he was a teamster. I was quickly corrected and I will never forget the laugh when I told him the story.
Bernie was one of a kind. I was an assistant when I randomly met him at a restaurant. He gave me advice, and then a job, and then a career. I’ll never forget him not for what he did for me, but what he did for the whole industry. He lifted everyone he met.
I wish I had known him.
God Never Picks The Weeds.
My heartfelt condolences to his family and friends.
I am Bernie’s youngest child. I just wanted to write to thank everyone for their wonderful comments. And thank you Nikki for your heart felt writing. Reading this has given me comfort in this very difficult time. Not only was my dad a driving force in Hollywood, but he was a very kind, loving father to me, my 3 brothers, and my sister. R.I.P. daddy, i love and miss you.
There can be no hyperbole when describing Bernie Brillstein because he really was that great, and then some.
My deepest condolences to Bernie’s children- this is the greatest loss of all for you. Big love and Best wishes. Carry on and be brave!
I second everyone. All the best meetings I ever had in Hollywood were when Bernie was in the room. Sadly the two projects we had together never got made (yet), but he was so much fun to be around, it didn’t matter. Others could learn people skills from this guy. He was the best
I have had the honor of being a client of Brillstein for the last 3 years. I always looked forward to the adventure it was talking with Bernie in my managers office or in his own. His laughter filled the halls and resonated in your heart. I always leave with a huge grin on my face. I am truly so honored and extremely proud to be with his company. I could not have asked to be a part of a warmer or friedlier family. I will make you proud Bernie..and I love you even more for thinking my boobs were fake. Thank you for making me feel important in a sea of stars! And thank you for hiring my manager..she is my light
Bernie was one of the greatest. Having dealt with many big celebrities over the years, Bernie was the biggest celebrity I have ever met.
I had the pleasure of working with him on a show. He took me and others under his wing. Whenever I called he picked on the phone. When I needed advice his door was always open.
I am truly saddened and wish I could have spoken to him one last time.
I loved him. He was a great man.
Chuck LaBella
Words are difficult, Bernie represented so much. This was a very comforting article that’s for sure. It was nice to see so many people comment. My family goes way back with Bernie, too much to list here, but I can say he is a bridge to so many and so very much. It was comforting to see a comment here by a family member, Kate Brillsten. I don’t know you Kate, I went to school with Nick and my brother with David, but funny enough I got my formal start at BGE and was in Bernie’s office back in 2000 when he was letting you have it on the phone when you didn’t want to go on the family vacation lol, ahh the ole school. The void is great just as Bernie! So much, it’s hard to accept. CS
I was stationed w/Bernie from ‘53-’55 in England during the Korean conflict (talk about luck)- Witnessed an early example of his power of persuasion when I watched him sit on the desk of the base commander and convince him to allow a group of us(included in the group was Frank Gorschun-at the time a wonderful piano player and impersonator) to put on a show for the troops. It was so well received we got to travel the whole of England w/a drunken Capt. as our chaparon-I mean Bernie was that good even then. Of course we never saw Gorschun again-he was in Germany special services immediately-that was a good story– one of many-so sorry for the families’s loss-he was too young.
My mother knew Bernie Brillstein since she was 7 years old. She is now 81. They went to camp together and Bernie remained friends with my uncle (her brother) until the day my uncle died. I grew up hearing camp stories about my uncle, Bernie and all the others at that camp. Now they are all gone. I never met Bernie. I’m sorry I didn’t. My condolences go out to his family.
Since 1948 at Camp Winadu where we first met, we had stayed in touch. I’m not in the biz but we had I guess a New York comraderie. We spoke infrequently, perhaps not more than once yearly,but his sense of humor, interest in my family, and other mutual friends who he had lost touch with, totally explained who and what Bernie was–A man for all seasons.
Rest in peace my friend. I shall miss our annual telecon.
JJ–Las Vegas
would like to hear more about/from person(s) who knew him from Camp Winadu days. Planning a Winadu reunion and would like to speak with those who attended.
I’m sad to say I never met Bernie. I never knew how special a man he was. His book has sat in my Amazon.com cart for 3 years as I assumed it’d be wrought with the self-adulation of an old industryite. I began reading these comments on Friday, went out of town and returned home Sunday night, eager to rush back here to read more personal tales about Bernie. I just ordered Bernie’s book and I can’t wait.
My industry experience consisted of working at NBC, under a “titan”(!!) like Zucker and a group of execs who succeeded at nothing but failure. Some of the biggest half-talents, and frankly idiots, that I’ve ever met, in or out of tv.
That’s as spectacular a group as I worked with and frankly, the reason I moved on. An uninspiring group of people on the whole, it struck me as a charade, a joke. And there had to be plenty more out there.
The reason I mention this? What a difference it’d make to a young employee, to work underneath someone like Bernie.
If I had been so lucky, I’d have stayed in the industry. But clearly many WERE blessed to work and interact with Brillstein. And if you don’t appreciate it already, just know that some of us are truly jealous and sorry to hear of your loss.
God bless, to a man I never met. Heck of a resume he left behind.
Had the pleasure of working with this icon on various projects. Never a bad moment. Saw him take on Network execs that had arrived specifically to pull the plug on a floundering show. A show that actually deserved to flounder. Yet somehow, 2 hours later the show had an additional 6 episodes. He was candid, fun, was as friendly to the below the line as the above the line. Always willing to share stories that made you feel like an insider to events 10 or 20 years past. Surrounded himself within his company with people that often went on to make a good name for themselves, but never came even close to matching his heart or talent. His company/mini-studio had a ton of class. He protected the people he worked with. I watched him make choices that cost him money, but would greatly benefit those who worked on his shows. Things that major studios with a lot more money wouldn’t do, just because he thought it was right. It’s hard to say anything that others haven’t already said. He was a genius at the bad cop/good cop strategy – he was always the good cop. But, he was always still a cop himself when it came down to it. What I will miss most are his anecdotes – the ones that didn’t get into his book. The ones that happened out of the blue when he was standing on a stage in chaos, and something reminded him of something else. And all those sweat suits. During the worst of the worst, I never saw him lose it. He was the kind of manager that doesn’t show up much anymore. One of only two I know from where Manager wasn’t a dirty word – the other (for me) being Ken Kragen.
With out Bernie, I don’t know for sure where Brad Grey, Kevin Reilly, Peter Traugott, Lloyd Braun, Sandy Wernick, and that SNL guy and so many others would be (some that weren’t even that or at all talented but got launched by affiliation). Not to even mention the wealth of comedy talent that he launched…
Man, this sucks.
I had the honor of first meeting Bernie in his hometown, NYC where he took great pleasure in showing me and Cynthia Pett-Dante the town. I had the amazing luck to sit next to him at a taping of SNL and watched as one performer after another stopped by to shake his hand. I saw a young Adam Sandler blush to get a “knock ‘em dead, kid” and remember Chris Farley awestruck like a little boy meeting his hero.
It was only a handful of times that I had the pleasure of spending time with Bernie Brillstein, but they were each unforgettable and all of them filled with fun. He had a great knack for making me feel like the most beautiful woman in the room and was old-school gallant. He always spoke with great love for his children and took pride in them. I wish the Brillstein family solace in knowing that there are so many people who have been blessed by Bernie and will remember him with great affection.
And, to my friend Cynthia, thank you for introducing me to Bernie, one of the many wonderful gifts you’ve given me. I will always be grateful.
While it is true that bernie was successful in business, funnier than hell and a masterful mentor to so many, including myself –his true brilliance was in the way he lived his life. He loved his work, but his true joy was in sharing stories about his cruises with carrie, his long car drives with his beloved dog lucy (in a car seat) and bragging about the many accomplishments of his sons and daughters. Work was not his end game — a life well lived was his true genius!
My wife Annie and I have lost the best friend one could have ever had, his kindness, love and friendship of thirty years will never be replaced.
“Miss ya kid”
Cliff & Annie
I had the privilege of working very closely with Bernie in the ’80s, a joyful experience with a great raconteur and show business legend.
My mother-in-law was best friends with Bernie Brillstein and he couldn’t have been more warm or generous to her (in life or in death). We imagine Kaye greeting Bernie with a corned beef on rye – and a dirty jokes – when he got to heaven. What a wonderful tribute to a wonderful man.
I was lucky enough to work with Bernie, have a phone/advice relationship and and always spoke with him at various functions. My favorite story he told was when The Blues Brothers were opening for Steve Martin at the Universal Ampitheater. WOW! AT my begging he retold that story each time we were in a situation that permitted. And it got better each time… more involved and he always remembered new details each time he told it! That was an extremely proud number of nights for him as ‘his boys’ (John & Danny) lit the stage up night after night, backed by a who’s who of bandmates. I wish I could hear him tell it one more time. Bernie lived dreams and made them come true for others. The heavens above are lucky to have such a wonderful man. Thanks for all of the kind words… I will never forget you…
MP
I met Bernie while I was working at one of his favorite men’s stores on Rodeo. He was always sweet and kind, and when we hosted the book signing for his book “The Little Stuff Matters Most”, I was on vacation, but he still had a book signed and waiting for me when I returned:
“To Val- Thanks for making my checks clear,
Love Bernie”.
Thank you Bernie, and you were right… the little stuff does matter the most.
I’ll never forget your laugh,
Val
I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do in the picture business while I was working in the mail room at an agency until I read Bernie’s first book. It changed my life and became my bible. The words he signed inside it will always remind me that every once and a while a person comes along that is one hundred times better then the rest. Every time he saw me, this young and hungry manager, he would address me by name and ask how things were. Even though I’ve left the industry, Bernie’s sage wisdom will follow me every where I go. One of the last few greats…the business will forever be different and miss the lovable giant. It’s people like Bernie that made Hollywood what it is. The town should be so lucky to have many like him.
i cudnt sleep.jumped on the computer and found Nikki’s obit.Ive been glued to the screen reading all about this wonderful man whom I never had the privilege of knowing. With tears streaming down my face uncontrollably I can only imagine how much Kermit cried. I am 40 and an admitted lifelong T.V addict I recall Mr. Bernsteins name from credits and articles since back in the 70’s.Seems that the verdict is in and its unanimous. You will always beone Awesome Man….God Bless…
Bernie was charitable, too. We could always — well, almost always — count on him to generously donate to our cause. He seemed like a funny guy — always good for a story and a laugh.
I have only the deepest respect for Bernie and remember him as the most generous person I have ever been lucky enough to know. The time I had spent as a member of his family was the most protected I have ever felt. I have nothing but warmth and love for this man with the biggest and kindest heart. I really enjoyed his humor, his intelligence, his laughter and how he loved a good Al Green song while driving.
Deepest Condolences,
Sonya
what can you say about a great man like Bernie. There are no real words to describe him. I have known him for quiet some time and he has never judged but has been helpful with advice, by listening and his great sense of humor. He had always an open ear. I am sad that I could not say good bye.My prayers will be with you and the family.
The world will not be same without you.
My condolences to his family
D.
Bernie was my father’s cousin. He was a warm, funny, gregarious man. About 20 years ago, when my sister was ill with a then-incurable disease, Bernie was the first to contribute to a fund designed to finance an experimental procedure. Sadly, my sister died shortly thereafter; when asked if we could send back the money, Bernie insisted that we donate the funds to a charity in her memory. For all of his successes and triumphs, the ever-lasting memory should be this: Bernie Brillstein was one hell of a guy.
I remember being introduced to him through an article in a men’s magazine I was browsing through at age 11 while my father shopped for groceries at the corner store. Ever since then I was a little girl who was watching all of Bernie’s comedy client’s and dreamed of being represented by him one day, or at least just to talk to him. I am jealous of all your experiences and think they are tremendous! Because of Bernie’s spirit and reputation, I am inspired to continue to move on in this recklessly unstable business.
Rip, Bernie, you are a god!
Colleen Danser
cdanser@hotmail.com
Excellent article, wonderful tributes. I sure wish I had known Bernie, he sounds like my kind of guy. May the “Big Mochers” honor his memory with kindness and advice to those on the way up!!
People don’t remember! Bernie was the best and what Show Business was all about! But I have learned that in this business people forget what you did for them even when they really owe you. I watched it happen. I always said the more powerful they became “YOU COULD THEN EXPECT NOT TO GET ICE WATER IN WINTER”! I REMEMBER giving an agent one of the biggest clients of all times and he said if you ever need anything ever he would call everyday during the time he needed me. When I needed something and he didn’t need me I got lessTHAN ICE WATER IN WINTER!
I went to High School with Bernie. Stuyvesant High School. Bernie liked to goof around & he signed my yearbook picture not his own. He said I would always remember him because he did that. We lost contact after graduation, but I followed his career in the media. He called me “Blue Baron” because he thought that it was funny. I was trully saddened by his passing.
I am a Retired NYPD Detective and a working actor who owns and operates a Private Investigation / Security / Ground Transportation business out of the NYC area. I have never met Mr. Brillstein but had a strong desire to after I read his book. I have several celebrity clients who, when his name came up, had nothing but incredibly nice things to say about Mr. Brillstein. I never knew the guy but I miss him already!!!
I met Bernie once a couple years ago. I was having a meeting with a manager at BEP and Bernie popped his head in to say hello and introduced himself. We got into a random conversation about airplane food, and Bernie joked that he now packed his own meals whenever he flew because the airplane food in first class was just awful. I thought, “This guy is a character!” He was so warm and engaging, that I could hardly believe I was chatting up the famous Bernie Brillstein. I never had the pleasure of working with him…but I’m glad that he blessed me with his presence that day. Rest in peace, Bernie.